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| www.chanceforlove.com: user’s manual|
Every tool has its manual. Even batteries for your player have instructions! Our site is also a tool, but much more complicated: it can help you find your close friend, your special someone, Mrs. Right. The main point is to use this tool in the right way. Quite recently we changed our site, it has become more modern, informative and attractive. Here are the letters we received:
“Wow you changed your home page Looks great and a lot of information. May I be the first to congratulate you on the new site”. Steve
“I wanted to let you know that I have been looking at your improved we [...] |
| A little trick to catch any woman.|
If you have no confidence in your own powers but you like the girl very much you can use a trick that is certain to help you. Attach a present to your first introduction letter! It can be something quite cheap but pleasant to every woman: one or three roses (in Russia it is not allowed to present people with an even number of flowers), a soft toy or some sweets. If your woman is well brought up she will certainly answer you at least to thank. Try not to miss this chance and get her interested in your further correspondence.
Well, if the girl is not very well brought up and even does [...] |
| Are you too picky?|
|By Steve Penner
"Maybe I'm still single because I'm just too picky."
"My parents tell me I'm too picky."
"All my married friends say I'm too picky."
In the 23 years I ran a dating service not a day passed that I didn't hear one of those comments.
Picky, picky, picky. Every single man or woman in the dating world uses that term at one time or another.
The fact is I never heard anyone say "Yeah, I'm not picky at all about who I date." And I literally spoke with thousands of single and divorced men and women.
Do single people have a right to be picky? Of course they do. But let's examine [...] |
| Deceit will always come to light!|
Internet is the sphere that provokes people to put on masks. You can invent an attractive nickname and do what you want! However, the sphere of international dating is not the zone where people may deceive. Here the people are serious about finding their other half and when they meet a cheater, it always hurts…
Yesterday we got a letter from one woman. She informed us that our client deceits women. He is her husband and she even sent the paper that proves the fact. What for is all this deceit? Does he think that it won’t be disclosed???
Certainly, if a woman corresponds on her own, a [...] |
| Fiancee Visa to USA- Fiancé(e) Visa K-1 overview|
|This visa is for those who have a fiancé(e) who is already a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident. You may apply for this temporary visa (K-1) which allows you to live and work temporarily in the United States for a 90-day period on the basis of your engagement to a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident. It is expected that you will marry your fiancé(e) within that 90-day period. You will then apply for an adjustment of status to conditional "Permanent Residence." If you marry your fiancee outside of the U.S. we can greatly speed up her getting into the U.S. by use of the ne [...] |
| First Introduction letter: don’t repeat mistakes of others|
Recently we got an angry letter from our client. He accused us of having incompetent translators and unserious women. We are very sensitive to statements like these, because we think that everything is just the other way round at our agency. We are constantly working with our women, remove inactive and uninterested from our database.
As for our managers and translators – they are all professional, have higher education and experience. I stop advertisement and introduction here. :))
The ground for this article was investigation about the co [...] |
| For those who prefer to sit on the road and wait (naked truth about men profiles on russian dating sites)|
|I placed my ad as an experiment on several Russian dating sites ( few of them were very famous) under the name of a 57 years old amercian man. I even did not add any pictures to my profile. I got so many letters on the first day. And most of those women were 20-30 years younger. My head began to spin :-), If not the one thing! I will tell you where those letters came from.
When a lady comes to the Agency, she fills the application form and she also writes the first formal letter to a foreigner:
“Hello, - she writes –
Dear …, My name is [...] |
| How long does it take to obtain a Fiancee K1 Visa|
The length of time varies from case to case according to its circumstances. The time it takes each BCIS office and each consular office to process the case varies. Some cases are delayed because the applicants do not follow instructions carefully or supply incomplete information. (It is important to give us correct postal addresses and telephone numbers.) In addition, the embassy or consulate may need to get security clearances for the applicant. Security clearances take time , but generally it should not exceed 3-4 months if the application is handled correctly. The "secrets" to the timing [...] |
| How much does a compliment cost?|
How much, indeed? Nothing in fact: said and that’s it. But if it were that easy, this story with a big sum of money in finale couldn’t have happened. Here is how it was.
New Zealand is a wonderful country, however it too has many lonely people who want to settle their personal life. Even if they have to fly more than 24 hours in a plane for that!
Our character, Francisco, had some experience of communication with Russian women when he started writing to Marina: long blonde hair, big blue eyes, soft, feminine, domestic, alluring. Oh, she was the woman he had been dreamin [...] |
| I am to marry a Russian lady soon, when we are married will she be entitled to NHS facilities?|
|Ignore the xenaphobics.... okay, your wife to be will be entitles to NHS services as your spouse. She will not be entitled to unemployment benefits, social security or any other forms of government funds. She will, once she becomes your wife entitled to apply for a national insurance number, subject to having a genuine offer of work. She will pay PAYE & NIC but will still not be allowed to access any government funds. You will be responsible for her and her upkeep. Once you are married, you can begin the process of applying for an 'indefinate leave of stay' visa. Best place to be interview [...] |
| I cannot believe that I’ll get a positive answer! Then post your profile!|
| One of three men of our visitors say this. But none of them has written a single letter. Having a long experience I can definitely say that having no positive answers at all is naturally impossible! There are a lot of means of receiving interested letters from women and we are going to discuss this issue in the nearest future. Now good news for those who:- are not ready to act;- are not ready to spend time looking through women catalogues.Let us present you the service Post your profileWhat are you to do?1. Enter our cite www.ChanceForLove.com2. Click link at the bottom of the page Post you [...] |
| Increase your chances to find a Russian wife by 100%|
When I am asked how to increase your chances, a Russian proverb always comes across my mind: “Water never flows under lying stone”. You also have similar sayings in your culture such as “No pain, no gains”. The experience of many generations is encoded in this simple but capacious phrase.
You can sit at the road and wait when She passes by. You can sit like this all your life!
Another option is action.
Let’s go from abstract to real. My first example is about people who place their ads at Dating Services and wait for answers. Let leave them sitting and wish them good luck, although I don [...] |
| Is the process of long-distance dating going to take long?|
Every man willing to find a wife in the Internet must have asked himself how long the process of correspondence and dating is going to take. Besides, he would like to know the appropriate terms of waiting for his girl’s answer, calling his girlfriend and arranging their meeting. “When can I first kiss her? How long does the immigration process take? When is my sweetheart going to enter my house?” We’ll answer all your questions.
I think it’s not counting months, weeks, days and hours but enjoying your dating game. You can experience this only once! If you lose your head and pl [...] |
| K–1 Fiancee Visa Fees|
|USCIS and Embassy Processing — $1950, to be paid in two parts: $975 upon commencement of legal work, and $975 upon USCIS approval.
The fee covers both USCIS and Embassy processing: USCIS and Embassy form preparation and submission, advice and continual updates on status, liaison with USCIS and Embassy, contact with and interview preparation of fiancee in Russian or English, and assistance in obtaining police certificates in countries of former Soviet Union. For fiancees being processed by the U.S. Embassy in Moscow, who reside outside Moscow, we also may provide logistical support in Moscow [...] |
| Language barrier|
Instead of epigraph:
I am corresponding with a lady from chanceforlove.com. She's almost exactly the kind of girls I am looking for. However, I do have serious concern about whether the language barrier could be overcome. I do not speak Russian, and she only understands written English text with help of dictionary. I can communicate with her with your translation at this time, and we would not be able to get any help in our daily life if we got married and lived together.
What is your opinion? How other couples overcame the language barrier?
A [...] |
| Mistakes you can make during your dating trip to Russia or Ukraine|
| Do you agree that the best lessons are lessons given to you by other people who have already made some mistakes so that you wouldn’t repeat them? We are going to have a detailed observation of a certain man’s trip. When coming to Russia he managed to make a lot of mistakes and he can hardly calm down with the idea of getting wiser and more experienced. But you can avoid all this bad stuff! Just imagine you are playing the computer game called “Taking pleasure from you trip to Russia”. Come on! Let’s start. As you know any trip starts long bef [...] |
| Mistakes you can make during your dating trip to Russia or Ukraine. Part 2|
| We are again on our trip together with Jake. We are lucky our trip is virtual one because his real trip indeed was a hard test for him. Jake and we are going to know the following:- traveling around the country without problems- a gift for your girl- how to spend time in Russia- correct estimation of your girl. Special attention- I’m answering your questions.So, Jake was at a loss and made several mistakes:- he didn’t have a notion about the country he was going to and took no simple things for everyday life here - he combined advantages of a hotel and an apartment b [...] |
| Russian Bride Agency Conspiracies|
|You read all over the internet involving NEGATIVE OPINIONS on how Russian Bride agencies run their business. It almost seems that everyday there is a new conspiracy developing over such-n-such agency and how they DO BUSINESS. That their agency is a scam, the Russian women are fake and the forever thundering echo of “I’ve paid nearly $200 and not one girl has ever written me back!” I’ve even heard men say that almost all of the Russian Bride sites have the same girls, that a truly great agency won’t share their girls, etc. But my friends, there are always TWO SIDES to every story, and perhaps a [...] |
| Russian ladies and their English|
| Seeing women’s personal ads you must take a note of their level of English. Some men consider it very important because they don’t want to wait till their wife masters English well. Others are not so deeply concerned about English. They much rather prefer beautiful long blond hair :))Whatever, no one is indifferent. We got the following marks that can show you our women’s English level:The majority of them got this:«Level 1 - Some forgotten knowledge from school or university»You are surprised because she was learning English at school and university but her level is still poor. Maybe she i [...] |
| Several ways of getting a positive answer from your woman.|
| You’ve sent your letter. Know what happens next? Let’s miss some technical details of its registration in our database and a telephone operator’s work. The most interesting things are just starting. Our operator calls a girl and informs her about your letter. Now she is to come and take it. But she doesn’t! She calls back and says the following: - You said I got a letter. When did it come? - Just a moment, I’ll check. Right, you got a letter of today’s date.- Who’s it?- It’s Nilson. His first letter to you. - Hm… Nilson… And what about John? - Not yet.- OK, this Nilson… Where’s he from? - W [...] |
| The basic rule of any long distance e-mail correspondence|
The basic rule of any correspondence (let alone Russian girls) is mentioned in the Bible: Treat people the way you would like them to treat you. In other words, write the letters you would like to get.
The concept of your first letter
It must include some information. If you are writing a letter you have at least seen her picture. If you are curious you have read her profile and know about her hobbies, preferences and so on. You are already communicating with her in your thoughts but she knows nothing about you. You are a clean sheet of paper for her or something you have written o [...] |
| The new USA (US) law on dating agency(s)|
|This law only apply's when you meet the lady's face to face in our offices. At this meeting YOU and the LADY can exchange information, if you do not wish to continue your relationship, we will request the return of your information and the lady(s) return your information on you. WE WILL HOLD ALL INFROMATION IN COMPLETE CONFIDENTIALITY. Before meeting a lady(s) you do not need to give out your personal information. It is INSANE to think any man would want to give out his personal information before meeting ANY lady. This disclosure of your personal information is a basis for identity theft or w [...] |
| The strategy of your further correspondence.|
The general rule here is being an interesting companion. Here everything is like in a real life. Just you have the advantage: you shouldn’t look better than you are. It is the case when virtual nature of communication is a great advantage. Be yourself. Show your natural reaction to her letters. It’ll take you more time to have mutual feelings but if you have them I can assure you they are much stronger than usual.
Show you interest in your woman’s life. Be attentive to her letters; do not ignore her questions. Tell her about your way of life because she will have to adopt it. We had [...] |
| The worst mistakes men do in the first letters.|
1. Impersonal letter. Each gentleman should introduce himself and tell the woman about his life at least in a nutshell. Very often letters have no name, let alone age, occupation and the country of living. However, all these facts are very important for Russian ladies.
2. Standard letters. Letters starting with «Hi, there!» are good for an ash can only. Address your letters to each girl personally. We’ll give you a hint: just comment on some fact from her personal profile. For instance, if she’s got a child ask her about his/her name, interests and so on…
The worst letter pat [...] |
| Top 10 Mistakes Men Make While Dating Russian Women|
|Here are the top 10 dating mistakes men make with Russian women (in no particular order after number 1!):1. Sending a woman money: This is a huge no-no. Any Russian or FSU (Former Soviet Union) woman who asks you for money is just trying to scam you. She will either bleed you until you are dry (if she is very slick) or just disappear after a quick score (if you are lucky). An honest woman would not ask; she has too much pride. Besides, she has already lived for 20+ years without your “help.” Why does she need you now? A Russian woman does not even consider the two of you to be in a “real” rela [...] |
| Translate me, please (How to choose an interpreter)|
This article is for those who plan their visit to Russia. Let’s talk about interpreters today. If your future bride graduated from the Institute of foreign languages and can speak 2-3 languages fluently, then, obviously, you don’t need an interpreter. In all other cases sooner or later you will have to resort to the help of this intermediary. For instance, during the first date, when your girl is so confused that all the English words she learnt so hard by your visit, have slipped her mind. Or during some important talks, while filling in some official documen [...] |
| What you should know about your girl before proposing to her|
When writing a letter you often don’t know what issues you’d better choose and what questions you should ask. On one hand, you can ask whatever you like because you don’t know her at all! On the other hand, possible questions are so numerous that you get lost!!! Which ones should come first? I think each of you can think over the list of questions that YOU find important. To help you do this, let me offer you a list of questions, or rather topics that you should discuss with your potential wife. Discussing them, you will learn to find the points of similarity and be toler [...] |
| Where to meet your lady? Come to Russia or invite your lady to other country?|
Let’s not surmise, but take the initiative in our own hands. It is good to exchange letters, but we have a saying here: “It is better to see once, than to hear hundred times!”. You can correspond for long and it will seem to you that here she is, your special one. But when you meet, spark may not rise between you. Don’t waste time in vain! Don’t drag out the correspondence! And summer is the best time for meetings!
So, planning your dating, you should decide where you want to see your future fiancée:
- at her area. Advantages: you can get acquainted with her family, friends, see [...] |