Remember when you were a kid and you used to play silly games with girls like pulling their hair, play-fighting, and throwing dirt on them? The reason you did this stuff was because it was sure to get their attention. Fast forward to today and they still love this kind of playful teasing that borders on being mean. Now, you have to be sure not to do this in a truly mean way. It should be done in a fun and playful way.
Here’s one example you play use this playful teasing to establish touch with a woman. I like to actually start a play fight with a girl. This is not good at the initial pick-up point but works well after you’ve been around a girl for at least an hour. Look for a good way to start the play fight – don’t just start out of nowhere. For example – if she mentions she’s been working out, this is a perfect time to initiate the fight. Say something like, “oh yeah? So you’re gettin buff huh? I think I can take ya”. Then square off and start giving her very, very light jabs toward her stomach. When she blocks low, go high and vice versa. Just barely make contact with her. This makes you seem fun and it also breaks the “touch barrier”. This is a great way to initiate contact with a woman. Once you do this it’ll make the transition to touching of a more sexual nature easy. She will subconsciously think, “I let him touch me already…. I must like him…. A little more touching can’t hurt”.
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