Don't be afraid to speak up and ask for what you want on a date. Don't just say yes all the time. If you express your wishes, you'll have a much better chance of having them come true.
• By the third date, it's time for the baseball hat, sweats and no make-up. Then you will find out how he really feels. The real you needs to be seen early. First impressions are important, but often aren't real. This goes for Internet dating, too. Put real pictures of yourself up on the site.
• There's something called "husband-handsome."You don't want a guy who looks like he just stepped off a GQ page. He's just trouble. You have to worry about too many other women throwing themselves at him. Also, he's probably got an attitude.
• One man devised an IQ test for women. He asks them how many senators can be elected in each state. He said, "Most young women don't know that answer, because it's not taught in schools nowadays, I guess. But if she doesn't get the correct answer to that, I'm done with her. There's nothing we can talk about."
• Don't compromise in your search. Look for the person who's going to make you want to be with her/him for the rest of your life. "Compromise on the color of your car or the size of your house, but not on the person you're going to spend your life with."
• Don't buy a ticket to Egypt after you've only known a guy for two weeks.
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