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Guys, if you smile at a girl and she doesn't smile back, most likely she is having a bad day and has been hit on by so many creeps that she just considers you another one. If the girl doesn't smile back, I suggest you don't try to approach her. You're not going to get a good outcome at all.
Don't always take the smile as a good sign, either. Some days I smile at people who smile at me just to be nice. Don't take the first smile as an opportunity to ask her out. Sometimes we just don't want to be rude to anyone. Also, if the girl you like is at work and she is being nice to you, it's her job to be nice to the customers. Don't always take a smile as a hint to ask a girl out.
Since smiling is not a good option, here are some suggestions of how to better get a girl's attention.
No. 1: Pay attention to her. Don't just sit by her in class and then talk to your friend the whole time. Try to include her in the conversation or start a conversation alone with her. She is not going to know you like her if you don't pay attention to her.
No. 2: Don't just come right up to her and ask for her phone number; she is not going to give it to you. Do you know how many guys randomly text psycho and creepy things to us girls? You need to talk to her first and let her somewhat get to know you.
No. 3: Don't ask her if she wants to hang out when you really mean a date. If you just want to be friends then go for it and ask her to hang out, but if you want to date her ask her on a date. She is not going to think you are completely and totally in love with her unless she has the mentality of a 12 year old.
So in closing, no one, especially a guy who calls himself Dr. Love, should tell girls how to be approachable because we know when we want to be approached and when we don't. Really, would you rather listen to a guy talk about women or would you rather listen to women talk about women?
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