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Long-distance relationships on Valentine's Day

Date: 2007-01-25

Antoine de Saint-Exupery once said, "Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction."

Every relationship faces problems and hardships. If love were easy, everyone would have it.

One of the hardest obstacles a couple has to face is distance. Regardless, they accept and endure it when they have to because they are not stressing over the present, but instead are looking forward to the future. Long-distance relationships are seen as impossible to some but, to those who are truly in love, it is just another test.

One of the biggest tests is coming up in just a few short weeks. Valentine's Day is a beautiful day of romance and a time to express your love. A ridiculous amount of money will be spent on chocolate, flowers and stuffed animals, not to mention the large number of expensive dinners and the excessive time getting ready to look perfect.

Everyone is attempting to prepare for the perfect night that fits his or her relationship perfectly. There might even be some young love blooming across a candlelit table among nerves and first-date jitters.

Valentine's Day is a special day for couples - well, couples that can see each other, anyway. It just sucks for the long distance couples who have to spend the day on the phone. Sending flowers is hard because they could show up wilted, and sending candy and presents could face disasters all their own.

So how do long-distance couples share the magic of Valentine's Day like the rest of the world since they cannot go home because it is the middle of the week?

They have to make the best out of a bad situation. If you love someone, it should not matter what you are doing. The sound of his or her voice should be good enough. Love is about sacrifices and this is a small one.

There are always times to profess your love towards one another. Who made this day the day of love? You can go home as soon as you can and have your own Valentine's Day. If that is not possible, you can just talk on the phone and long to be closer to your other half. Have a special night on a deeper level, without the presents and spending. After all this is a day about love, a feeling, not material things. I know that for me nothing makes me happier than hearing that my boyfriend misses me and loves me. We do not talk every night on the phone and I know that if I do not see him for Valentine's Day I will be okay because we will talk.

Maybe long distance couples will experience a better Valentine's Day, free of material items so that it is all about love.

This entire situation is hard. Especially having to watch couples get to be around each other every day, but in your heart, you should know this is only making the relationship stronger. Know that after this trial, it will be ready for anything. Trials just test your strength.

The long distance couples do not need Valentine's Day, no couple needs Valentine's Day. Love for each other happens every day. Do not let trivial things get in the way of the true meaning.





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