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There are 30 million single Americans over 50 years old.
Best places to meet others: Online dating services have become the method of choice, but there are matchmaking services, blind dates and accidental encounters, such as in Fry's Electronics stores.
Introducing yourself: A well-thought out e-mail that references something in your profile will make you stand out more than others. If you're not interested in those who contact you, respond by wishing them well in their dating venture.
Beware of false advertising: Some people use either old photos or pictures of someone else for their online profiles.
In-person introductions: A smile goes a long way, especially when flirting. If you want to know if a stranger you meet is married, look at the wedding-ring finger, which is a good indicator, but not flawless. Another trick is asking the person a question that implies he or she is married, such as ``Did you and your (wife/husband) have a nice weekend?'' You'll quickly be corrected if he or she is single.
The etiquette: Don't be too shy to casually ask for a coffee date if you enjoy the initial introductory conversation. If people are interested, they'll take the time.
No-nos: Do not talk about the ex, answer your cell phone, talk about yourself excessively or complain.
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