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Can you expect to find your soul mate at a nightclub or a bar? The answer should be obvious, but countless people complain that the person they started dating that they met in a club is not who they expected. "I just want to fall in love," they all say.
The evening bar ritual is not complex. Girls doll themselves up, and guys spray on the Axe cologne to attract a member of the opposite sex.
The night usually begins with a few drinks before the car ride to the bar. A member of the party usually stays sober to drive the drunks to their night of debauchery. Now the party is loose, but alcohol tends to shake up a lot of situations.
Girls usually get a little wild, and guys start thinking about what they really want even more than when they are sober. The hunting ground is set. The guys are ready for the kill, and the girls are looking for someone who is going to respect them.
Let the chaos begin. Girls are approached to dance and they are usually happy to engage in this useless activity.
After a dance or two, some conversation takes place and numbers are exchanged. One drink leads to two, which leads to three and so on.
The intoxicated girl believes she has found Prince Charming and the guy thinks he has just met Ms. Right Now. Sometimes the two will go home together and act on their intoxicated instincts.
What happens the next day? Usually the guy does not call, and the girl feels bad about her decision. "Why can't I find a guy that respects me?"
On the other end of the spectrum is a guy that is probably bragging to his friends of the conquest that he has just finished. What is next for the guy? Another nightclub and another girl - business as usual.
Most guys do not want to be tied down. Girls usually like a companion, someone they can talk to and share moments of life with.
Who is deceiving whom in this ritual of the nightclub/bar life? Is the guy deceiving the honest girl trying to have a good time, or is the girl deceiving herself into believing that she will meet a guy that will sweep her off of her feet with alcohol on his breath and one general thing on his mind?
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