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Single and dating? Here are 10 tips for finding the love of your life in the new year.
•Lose the losers. How sad would it be to have the love of your life come along and you miss it because you are with some loser? This is what can happen when you keep someone around just to have someone around
•Make sure you have room for a relationship -- physically, emotionally, financially, spiritually.
•Create your top 5 requirements. What are your non-negotiable must-haves?
•Create your top 5 needs. Needs are different from requirements in that needs can be negotiated as to time, place, when, where, how, how often, etc.
•Create your top 5 wants. It would be nice to have all your wants, but it is not necessary.
•Avoid your favorite dating traps. Your favorite dating trap is a pattern in which you frequently find yourself in relationships.
• Scout-Sort-Screen-Test. Scouting is keeping your eyes open for potential partners. Sorting is choosing prospects to pursue further. Screening is checking to see if a person meets your requirements, needs and wants. Testing is seeing whether this person is right for you.
•Build a support group in your quest to find the love of your life.
•Keep the right attitude. Attitude determines your outcome.
•Exercise choice muscles. Don't settle for the first person who likes you back.
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