If you want to find out if the guy you just dated is the one for you or not you have to read some signs. He appears to be the right one. After all you find him very attractive and very intellectually stimulating. He is such a gentleman, and he treated you well. He’s got all the attributes you’re looking for in a lifelong partner, and you want him… and you want him bad.
But uncertainties abound. You don’t know if he could reciprocate the level of interest you have for him. All you have are thoughts of him, as well as the memories of the date that was. You find it difficult to think straight.
Luckily, the signs you need are all there, just waiting for you to read and decide. Hard as it is for you, take some time to study them, and muster enough courage to accept what may not be favorable for your desires. But who knows he might be into you after all.
So, what are these signs, and how, exactly, could you decode them?
* He said that he’ll call but he didn’t. There could be two reasons why he didn’t He may be buying his time so that he’ll give you the impression that he’s not interested, which would heighten the surprise when he does reveal his true feelings for you. Or he may not be interested in you. Prepare yourself for any eventuality.
* He called as soon as he got home. Rejoice, girl! You’ve got a connection! Play your cards right, and he’s in the bag!
* He called even before he could get home. Wow! There’s no need for playing cards. It is just a matter of time before this guy is yours and yours alone. He can’t wait to see you again.
* During dinner your topic was about him. Again, this may go either way. He may be a natural egomaniac who takes himself too seriously and is trying to impress you with his better qualities. Or he finds you interesting, but he sees you as someone who would spare some time for his grand tales of personal accomplishments.
* During dinner your topic was about him and nothing else, even when you’re about to share your thoughts with him. Uh-oh! You could be in the red here. You have a certain megalomaniac at hand. Forget him.
* He said something similar to “you’re a good friend.” He is trying to say “sorry, I just can’t see you and me together.” Abandon all hopes. He’s not just into you, but he’s too polite not to say it straight to your face.
* He said something similar to “you’re like a sister to me.” Same as above, albeit in a friendlier, more affectionate language.
* He didn’t offer to take you home. Forget it. The date was tortuous for him, and he’s happy it’s over and done with.
* He kept taking those bathroom breaks. He could be doing three things there – calling his wife or girlfriend in which case he may be married or is otherwise committed; just pacing around, in which case he is dying to wind up the date and get out; or simply he has a severe case of diarrhea.
So, there you are, right in front of you. Sometimes, though, they may be too much to bear that we choose not to notice them. Don’t allow yourself to feel depressed in the event that he’s not interested with you. There are a lot of guys out there. Failing to win his heart only means that there is someone there waiting for you.