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This week one of our girls told us an unpleasant story. She was delivered a bouquet ordered to her by her fiance through another web-site, but her joy was clouded by an unpleasant circumstance. Here is what she wrote to him:
“You have a really fine taste. Cream-colored chrysanthemums with yellow herberas look stunning. The only thing that upsets me is when I unwrapped this bouquet it turned out that half of the herberas were broken. I was unpleasantly amazed that they were tied by scotch tape, i.e. it had been initially known that they were broken. Well, never mind. You know, that for me your care, your attitude is very valuable. I appreciate it a lot”.
It is hard to believe that anyone can be so unfair, but unfortunately some people are. Let this story be a vivid example for you. We know all our women personally and will never deliver broken flowers to any of them. While for other firms she is a stranger. So they didn’t care about a woman and simply stuck broken flowers with scotch!
> Dear Slava,
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> I am writing to you to ask for advice. I really hope you will spare the time to answer my questions.
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> I met some very nice Russian ladies on the internet and after some correspondence I am going to visit one of them at the beginning of June. I have my tickets and visa ready now and I am very thrilled at the prospect of meeting my chosen lady “in reality”. We have been exchanging letters for a few months and have had about 7-8 conversations over the telephone, and my impression is that she is a lovely woman with lovely personality and I really hope that we fall for each other and get on well when we spend our time together in Russia.
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> My worry is that I don’t know much (if not anything) about Russian women. I regularly read things about Russia and Russian women on the internet, but this is not enough.
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> I would like to know more about the way Russian women get intimate with a man they like, how much time they need, and if there are any special “signs” that she will use to show it. I am sure during my 4-5 day visit to my lady in her native town we can have nice conversations and find lots of common topics and points of view (we already have!), but I am not sure how far it is expected and acceptable to go intimately. What would you advice me? I personally don’t think it is a good idea to talk about or have sex in my first visit to her. Am I right? How about touching her or holding her hand? Will she feel pleased or will she feel offended? Also, is it normal for a Russian woman to have sex before she gets married or do I need to ask for her hand before thinking about sex? I wish I wasn’t so ignorant about these things…
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> There is one more thing. Since I am going to visit her in her native town, it is very likely that I will meet her parents. I am not dreading that moment, I just don’t know if it is a good idea to get them some presents and what presents to buy them. I don’t want them to take my presents as “showing-off”, I just want to show some respect.
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> I am sorry I bombarded you with so many questions, but please help me with your answers and also give me any other tips that you think will be important for me, or mistakes to avoid.
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> Best regards,
> Kiril Kambarev
Dear Kiril,
All men wonder about these questions before the trip :) This topic has been under discussion many a time. Nevertheless, these questions are always topical.
Really in our country it is considered inappropriate to make love during the first meeting. Many people think that at first they should get to know each other well, obtain close relations on spiritual level and only then come to physical intimacy. Desirably after wedding or at least after engagement.
However, it depends on a woman’s upbringing, or rather on the relations you create yourself. As for touching and sex, I don’t think that it differs from how women feel in other countries. All human beings have the same physiology.
As for the presents to parents, I am personally sure that there is no better present for parents than confidence that their daughter is in dependable arms. How to do it? Give to her parents a video cassette with the film about your parents, neighbours, friends, house, town. So they will know where their daughter is going to live and won’t worry a lot about her. It would also be nice if your parents could say warm-hearted words to the parents of your fiancee.
You can also bring a book with pictures about your town, a bottle of good tipple to her father: whiskey, cognac and make sure to give a bouquet of flowers to her mother.
Kiril, you have a muddle in your head now after reading a lot of information about Russian women. Remember one thing: they are first of all Women seeking love.
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