You are hot of indignation??? You are going to marry her and she keeps placing her info in the Internet? You were dreaming about your common kids sleeping calmly in the cradles, and she goes on seeking a husband? At last, you’ve opened your heart to her, but she…
     Don’t haste! In such cases psychologists usually advice to make a deep sigh and count to 10. No help? Keep counting until you realize that you can speculate reasonably.

     While you are counting I can tell you that there are plenty of cases when the girl is not aware of her profile being available on another Internet site. I can bet that you consider her the most beautiful woman on the earth. That’s why:
- scammers can use her picture to gain more men-clients;
- her data can be used by another agency which has just stolen it.

How can it be? Very simple. On behalf of an interested man they can buy her contact information and the rest data together with her pictures are copied and that’s all! It is almost impossible to control it. However, we’ve undertaken some measures. So, we do not sell the entire database as it is done in many agencies. Our database is too valuable for us. We work personally with our girls and we are responsible for them. Moreover, we sell not more than 10 addresses to one man-client.

Let’s me explain our policy of the addresses’ giving. Our long experience shows the purchase of the address is ineffective without preliminary correspondence. There is no guarantee at all that the woman will agree to correspond. It isn’t your fault, but the method of the correspondence. The post works badly here in Russia. Yes, the letter can reach the necessary mailbox but hooligans can steal it out. And this is the fact! Besides, correspondence by ordinary mail will prolong your communication for many years. And unfortunately time plays against many women and men, turning to our agency.
But if you’ve been communicating through e-mail for some period already, and you want to send your photos or presents to your lady, you need to get her address. And we will give it to you free of charge. If you have:
- Gold membership, you get 5 addresses a month;
- Silver membership – 2 addresses.
    
     Besides, if we reveal the fact of stealing we can argue with the agency that has stolen our client’s profile. We can easily prove that she is our client because we have a written info with her signature. However, the only law that works in the Internet is personal feeling of ethics…
     So, here is my advice for you: never accuse your woman of placing her profile on other Internet sites. To make my advice even more convincing I can give you some more arguments for it.

     So, sometimes a woman cannot imagine that she is so popular in the Internet. But what should you do if it was her own initiative
     Well, first of all, you don’t have to show your hot indignation. Otherwise I’ll make you count to ten again:) I’ll help you.
- First. She could have placed her profile long before meeting you. Now she has forgotten about it and is also dreaming of you and sweetly sleeping babies.
- Second. Perhaps, she was placed there by the agencies without their own site. We have around a dozen of various marriage agencies in our city and women can place their profile in several of them just in order to increase their chances. However, many of these agencies are not so large as our agency and haven’t got their own Internet sites.
- Third. You’ve found her on another site? But what did you do there? So, if you may look through these sites, it would be honest to treat your girl friend as a person who’s also free in her actions.
- Fourth. You have serious intentions to her but perhaps she doesn’t know about them. Are you sure you let her know that you awfully want to see her as your wife? Are you sure you are not ambiguous in your words? Do you phone her having planned your meeting? Have you found out what documents she needs to get the Alien Fiancee Visa yet? Be frank and definite and you are certain to gain the same from her part.
- Fifth. Should I go on? My task was to show you that there could be plenty of reasons not to be shocked with the case but speculate reasonably. As you can see, variants are numerous.

By the way, our agency recommends women not to remove their data from the Internet till the last moment (i.e. when she gets the Alien Fiancee Visa). First, it simplifies our account task. Second, we have already experienced some cases when a girl had removed her data from the Internet and had been in correspondence with a certain man for half a year or so (up to a year) with the zero result. However, her age increased but optimism fell down…

So what are you to do if you have found your sweetheart’s profile in the Internet?

1. Tell her about it. If she was unaware of these actions she’ll be also interested in deleting her info from the Internet.
2. If she did it herself just tell her about your intentions. Don’t blame her, but be romantic. Describe your common life in the nearest future. Perhaps, after you do it you will not have to ask her to remover her info from the Internet because she will be willing to do it herself.
3. If you are sure that you have told her about your intentions quite clearly, but her info is still available, quietly ask her to remove it. You can turn to the agency with the request.

Anyway, the situation is in the heart of controversy. Having chosen a wrong way, you can lose your sweetheart forever. There cannot be universal solutions here, so, if you have some doubts please, ask our managers for advice. They have a certain experience and know our women-clients personally. So, they can help you choose the right way of behavior.

Good luck!
(based on a real case)