For any one having romantic aspirations, dating is a good thing. It is always good to engage one in such things as it is so full of fun. Dating is not all about mating but spending some good moments with your partner. It is quite common for adolescents to go on for dates with the opposite sex and this is what everybody seeks at this age. This is of great social significance and should not be overlooked.
So it is quite obvious that a new comer in the field of dating will have some intriguing questions in his mind. Even experienced people are not short of these questions.
Some of the common and frequently asked questions are:
Question 1: What dress should you wear?
The activity/activities that are normally seen on a date are good enough indications to answer the secret of proper dressing. More so, if a date is planned together by both the partners then it becomes easier to choose an appropriate dress code for the occasion.
In case, if your date wants the occasion to be a surprise then it would be nice to ask him: what should you wear? If he does not answer, then you can wear any dress of your choice. To be on the safe side just wish that he answers you.
A smart dressing code is always reliable for any occasion.
Question 2: Whether you should kiss or not?
The answer to this question may vary from person to person. Some may be in favor of it while some may not agree. You should be very careful about kissing in the first date. You must remember the after effects of kissing. You are the best judge of the situation and it is entirely up to you to whether to go for a kiss on the first date or not. Study the situation carefully and then make a decision.
Question 3: Should you engage in sexual acts on your first date?
This is a very tricky and a very delicate situation. It again depends entirely on you. But the most common answer is a big no. Such an act is sometimes acceptable to many on a first date but not to all. It is natural to have doubts regarding this. So, when in doubt, don’t go for it. You normally do what you feel but keep in mind the ramifications of such an act.
Question 4: Is it right to express your feelings on a first date?
Well, expressing your feelings generally means telling the other party whether you love him or not. It all depends on you. If you are comfortable with it, then you should go ahead and tell. But remember, the words ‘I love you’ once said cannot be traced back. So be sure before going for it.
Question 5: Should you introduce him or her to your folks?
Your maturity is very important here. If you are matured and living on your own then you may go ahead with it and get the other party introduced to your parents after making sure what you feel about your partner. But, if you are teenager then you must tell your parents about it. It may be safe be for you and your parents at times.